5 Ways To Be Rejected – Dr. Sandy Nelson
1. Think only of yourself
If you’re looking to be rejected among pals, co-workers, and even as a romantic partner, make everything all about you. Be sure to make it obvious you have no interest in conversating about stuff that doesn’t involve yourself. Do that, and the goal to be excluded will be only moments away.
Healthy relationships require a mutual genuine caring for and interest in another person. As the saying goes There’s no “I” in Team.
2. Don’t compromise
Compromise? Don’t be silly. You want things your way. There’s no meeting half-way for you. All plans voiced by others are iffy until approved by what works best for you. Refuse to have any consideration for the needs or preferences of those around you and soon enough you’ll be left in the cold.
Making concessions with others is only necessary when you value a relationship and want to be a decent human being.
3. Act like a Know-It-All
You think you know everything. In fact, it’s a dumb idea for others to question your authority on everything. The words: I don’t know never come out of your mouth. You’re a chatter box on thee way to do all things on earth and you’re happy to be the interrupty of conversations to point that out. So it should come as a no-brainer when you’re kicked to the curb because no one likes a Know-It-All.
I repeat, no one likes a Know-It-All.
4. Be dishonest
Here’s a good idea: make yourself look good using lies. Tell tall stories that inflate who you are, what you do, and who you know. In conversations expand on your fake talents and gifts to the world. Makes promises you have no intention of keeping. Forget having any relationships because that would require the real you, who even you don’t know anymore. When you dodge the truth, c’mon people know you’re lying, and those people will dodge you.
Real relationships require real people.
5. Practice prejudice
Acceptance is a word thrown around, but rarely considered by you in chats about other people. No way. Suspicion is what you preach when talking about cultures and races different than your own. You denounce any way of living that doesn’t meet your authoritative standards. Judging and condemning people by the color of their skin is the least you can do. Your ignorance leads you to perceive that you possess supreme superiority. Rejection will be a cakewalk.
Here are two human enlightenment’s: 1. There is a God. 2. We are not him.
Think about it.
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